I bury the sautéed spinach in the scrambled eggs—my attempt to disguise a healthy vegetable. My 20-month-old grandson isn’t fooled. He pulls out a slimy green leaf and tosses it aside.
I try a different method.
“Grandma loves eggs. Can I have some?”
I pretend to eat some of his spinach omelet. Then I lift the spoon to his lips. He shakes his head, lips pressed together.
Critter made up his mind. He knows what he likes (scrambled eggs) and what he presumes he doesn’t like (spinach). Today, I’m powerless to convince him otherwise.
Which got me to thinking—
Is there something I dislike or don’t want to do simply because I’ve made up my mind to do so?Tweet
If so, have I made up my mind based on my research and personal experience? Or, do my emotions and preconceived notions govern my decision?
For instance, I’ve made up my mind that I’ll never sky dive. There’s nothing anyone can say that will persuade me to jump from a plane. But, I’ve also made up my mind in areas that are less daring.
That person I avoid at work because . . . I know I won’t like her even though I never took the time to get acquainted.
That new hair salon that I won’t go to because . . . I’m a creature of habit.
Tofu because . . . who eats that stuff? Just Kidding!
Maybe that thing we think we’d dislike is an activity or event: participating in a fundraiser, attending a marriage retreat, joining a gym. Heaven help us if we try something new. Something that might benefit us—like spinach.
I met a young mom named Claire who felt isolated and struggled with depression. She said, “I’m stuck at home with a demanding toddler and a husband who works long hours. My closest friend moved away.”
“Have you thought of getting plugged into a church?” I asked. “Or joining a women’s Bible study. You could meet other like-minded moms.”
I told Claire that having women friends and developing a deeper relationship with God preserved my sanity at her age. It still does.
She shook her head. “No thanks.”
Claire had made up her mind that church fellowship and Bible study weren’t the answers. In her mind, how could she make friends or study her Bible when she didn’t have the mental or emotional energy? How could she make time for God and pray when she had no time for herself?
I empathize with Claire. But I recognize that her fatigue and volatile emotions govern her mind right now. Unless her need for positive change outweighs her complacency for status quo, I doubt I’ll change her mind.
What say you?
Can you think of someone or something that might be good for you, but you’ve made up your mind that’s not happening?
Have you ever questioned why you think the way you do? And then asked, “Is this true?”
What keeps you from changing your mind?
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